Nothing annoys me more than 'I don't want to say something I can't take back'.
Let's think a minute, shall we? Clearly you DO want to say something, else you wouldn't have mentioned it, and that sentence alone is designed to wind someone up.
So, if you want to say something, say it. The comment is clearly not going to be nice, so hell, rip the band-aid off and get on with it, instead of alluding. I hate alluding.
To then be told that it wasn't meant that way seems to be back tracking somewhat. If it's not aimed at me, then you don't need to walk away from me for fear of saying something you can't take back. To say that and then tell me it's hurtful to think I thought to question you over it, is in itself, utter bobbins.
Say it, don't say it, but don't pussyfoot around and make out it was anything other than what it was, because in the grand scheme of things, apparently being honest and supporting someone, is clearly the wrong thing. Who knew.
